Doing this from a distance
Sixty hectares do not photograph. The silence, the distance to the nearest neighbour and the scale of the woodland at Le Hameau de l'Esperelle are exactly the things a screen cannot convey, which is awkward given that eight of our couples in ten live in another region or another country and will see the estate once, maybe twice, before their wedding day. Organising something this size remotely is a real source of anxiety, not a small one.
We do not answer it by taking the planning over. You will run your wedding your own way, which is why people choose a private estate in the first place. What we give you instead is a toolbox: honest advice about what this place makes easy and what it makes complicated, a single contact from your first message to the farewell brunch, and an ecosystem of suppliers who have already worked here and know how far the kitchen is from the courtyard. They sign up to a charter of ethics, fairness, honesty and reliability, and to nothing else, since we take no commission from any of them.
Two practices do the reassuring. The first is the Wedding Shop Days: once a year we open one of the estates for two to four days with around forty suppliers from the ecosystem, free for our couples, no entry fee and nothing to sign. You taste the food, hear the musicians and watch the light fall at the hour it will fall on your own day, and one weekend of it replaces half a dozen trips south. The second comes afterwards: every couple fills in a satisfaction questionnaire, and those answers decide who stays on the list.