Organising it from where you live
Most couples who marry at La Bastide des Barattes have never set foot in Cavaillon before the day they come to visit. Eight of our couples in ten live somewhere else: another region of France, and more often another country. Committing to a house you have seen in photographs, a caterer you have never met and a run of days you cannot rehearse is daunting, and that worry, far more than the budget or the guest list, is what fills the first message people send us.
So the way we work is built around the distance rather than adapted to it. You keep one contact from that first message to the farewell brunch, with no call centre and no file passed from hand to hand. You organise the wedding yourself, your own way, because that freedom is the reason to hire a private estate at all. What we hand you is a toolbox: frank advice on what works at this bastide and what does not, and an ecosystem of suppliers who have already worked in its kitchen and on its lawn. They commit to a charter of ethics, fairness, honesty and reliability, and that is all we ask of them, because we take no commission from any of them.
Two habits do most of the reassuring. Once a year we open one of the estates for two to four days with around forty of those suppliers, an event we call the Wedding Shop Days: our couples come free of charge, taste what the caterer would actually serve, hear the band play and meet the florist. One weekend there replaces half a dozen trips to Provence. And after every celebration the couple fills in a satisfaction questionnaire, whose answers decide who stays on the list. Recommending people we earn nothing from only means something if somebody is checking.